just me .. late at night with alot of random thoughts..
i dont know how many people will agree or disagree with the things i am about to say .. but you know these are things i think about .. and /or believe..
i really think monogamy is overrated.. i think honesty should be the greatest factor in a relationship.. maybe some day i will find the man that changes my mind about this but ... i am unsure that will ever happen.. all iknow is as long as you are honest with all the people you are involved with and they can deal wtih it then why tie yourself to just one person when its against the nature of man anyway ... (oh yeah i can see the comments i am gonna get now )
and i want to know if i am such a wonderful person.. why am i sitting here alone .. on friday .. or any day for that matter
i want to know what the hell happened to manners.. tonight i encountered exactly 7 rude children in the span of a half hour.. what has happened to being a parent and being responsible..
also.. why do we pander to those that get "offended" at every thing.. cause seriously .. this is America.. freedom of speech .. i have th e freedom to say things you dont like.. and you have the freedom to say things i might not necessarily like.. you should be glad we have these freedoms instead of complaining about every thing that "offends" you
i am also tired of every one feeling sorry for the "darwins" of this world that eliminate themselves.. if you are so stupid that you use drugs and od.. or you drive with out a seat belt.. or wanna speed down the road with no helmet and hit a tree and die.. well DUH!... think about what you are doing.. and dont sit there and try to over think it or say "oh lets make a law to make that illegal" because its not the motorcycle or the car or even the drugs that killed them .. it was their decision to do these things..
i firmly believe the gene pool is getting weaker and weaker because we allow weaker and weaker people to contribute to it.. at what point do we say .. maybe we shouldnt take this step in keeping some one alive.. seriously .. natural selection doesnt work any more .. because we have a fix for every thing and in turn for that we keep people alive that might not need to be .. ( more nasty comments coming i am sure )
i am feeling very controversial tonight .. can you tell LOL
anyway these are the things that have been wandering aimlessly thru my head thought i might ought to get them out ..
have a nice day !!
i dont know how many people will agree or disagree with the things i am about to say .. but you know these are things i think about .. and /or believe..
i really think monogamy is overrated.. i think honesty should be the greatest factor in a relationship.. maybe some day i will find the man that changes my mind about this but ... i am unsure that will ever happen.. all iknow is as long as you are honest with all the people you are involved with and they can deal wtih it then why tie yourself to just one person when its against the nature of man anyway ... (oh yeah i can see the comments i am gonna get now )
and i want to know if i am such a wonderful person.. why am i sitting here alone .. on friday .. or any day for that matter
i want to know what the hell happened to manners.. tonight i encountered exactly 7 rude children in the span of a half hour.. what has happened to being a parent and being responsible..
also.. why do we pander to those that get "offended" at every thing.. cause seriously .. this is America.. freedom of speech .. i have th e freedom to say things you dont like.. and you have the freedom to say things i might not necessarily like.. you should be glad we have these freedoms instead of complaining about every thing that "offends" you
i am also tired of every one feeling sorry for the "darwins" of this world that eliminate themselves.. if you are so stupid that you use drugs and od.. or you drive with out a seat belt.. or wanna speed down the road with no helmet and hit a tree and die.. well DUH!... think about what you are doing.. and dont sit there and try to over think it or say "oh lets make a law to make that illegal" because its not the motorcycle or the car or even the drugs that killed them .. it was their decision to do these things..
i firmly believe the gene pool is getting weaker and weaker because we allow weaker and weaker people to contribute to it.. at what point do we say .. maybe we shouldnt take this step in keeping some one alive.. seriously .. natural selection doesnt work any more .. because we have a fix for every thing and in turn for that we keep people alive that might not need to be .. ( more nasty comments coming i am sure )
i am feeling very controversial tonight .. can you tell LOL
anyway these are the things that have been wandering aimlessly thru my head thought i might ought to get them out ..
have a nice day !!
10 Comments:
At 7:12 AM,
Deneen said…
I am best with monogamy-I find that the other way never works out-someone is always jealous, an asshole (can ya tell it hasn't been me?). Besides, I barely have enough time and energy for one man, let alone adding another to the pile-in your words "GAH!".
"Darwins"-interesting way of putting it, I like it. I have been a ginormous fan of Darwinism and yes, what you said slips right into the theory. You are right about Natural Selection also and there are so many issues, beyond getting nasty comments, on this part of the post.
By the time my dd is retired, people will be able to live til they are over 100-but will they want to? Quality of life, not quantity.
At 2:58 PM,
Unknown said…
Most people fail to realize just how much of their own reality they create themselves..by their own free will...
And if you are alone..and don't wanna be..bring it on down to North Carolina baby!...lol...
Op~
At 6:32 PM,
ThreeOliveMartini said…
deneen .. i think its up to th eperson really some ppl do better with one .. some dont .. but i dont think you should be limited..
Opie... well . we can talk more about NC you know.. and yes i know part of my reality is my own doing.. random thoughts at 4 am LOL you know
At 12:51 AM,
Burfica said…
I agree with stupid people killing themselves, is just cuz they were stupid. (insert Anna Nicole bitch right here)
And I'm controversial, but I think we should screen people before they can have kids, and fund the one's that would be good if they can't get preggers. I know a lady that has had 8 kids, and 3 of them don't live with her, cuz he ex took her to court and found her to be an unfit parent. The rest is on welfare, and she says she will drink with every pregnancy trying to have retarded kids, so she can have funds, and nobody will take them away from her.
And here I couldn't have anymore. uggghhhhhhhhh
At 8:28 AM,
Unknown said…
You know my thoughts on rude damned kids and their parents.
As for freedom of speech
As long as your mouth isn't witting checks your butt can't cash.
and...
Just because we have freedom to speak what we want doesn't necessarily mean we should all the time. Sometimes, silence is truly golden.
At 8:44 AM,
Melissa H. said…
I have to agree with the rude kids. I have four kids and sometimes think they are louder than they should be, but I'm one of those parents who scolds her kids publicly if they act out publicly. I let them know--within earshot of any others who think they're out of line--that they need to straighten up and behave better.
Monogamy works best for me as well, but I can also understand how polygamy can work for others. I think it has to be a personal choice for all involved. My husband is also a monogamous-type person. Neither of us would date more than one person at a time, even before we married. It really is personal preference.
As for freedom of speech, well, people just need to learn to suck it up and go on if something offends them. If what you say isn't threatening anyone, then if there's a disagreement, I think the proper attitude should be "I disagree with your opinion but I'm adult enough to go on with my life" instead of making a big to-do about every little "offensive" word.
In the case of people killing themselves, I think there is a bit of Darwinism there. I was raised in Christian church, but that doesn't mean I dispel other theories out there. Who's to say that the creation of the world didn't happen with a big bang by a higher being? Who's to say that a higher being didn't take millions of years for each "day" of creation? We don't really know, so I tend to lean toward all the possibilities. Isn't that what life is about anyway? Making your own decisions and living your own life the way you believe is right?
At 5:00 PM,
Anonymous said…
Tell it as it is. I believe in free speech, I also believe in many of the same ideals that you hold out for us to read. Great Stugg
At 1:28 AM,
Alekx said…
don't even get me started on rude people/children and idiots killing themselves.
Though I agree the idots should off themselves, unfortunatly I have to be the front line to try to get them help. Damn my job for paying me so well to do that.
Spend one day listening in at my job and anyone will agree with your comment about the gene pool, and most people would be up for natural selection.
At 5:19 PM,
Rex Venom said…
Random Thoughts,
The final frontier
Rock on!
At 6:06 PM,
Kellycat said…
If you were married you might understand the theory to manogomy. You don't have anyone that you want to share everything with just yet. As far as kids go, you have to have them to know what they are like to raise.
Nothing nasty said. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. I will agree with Kari that sometimes Silence is Golden... :)
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